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PostSubject: my two spirit babies   Mon Jan 15, 2007 8:49 am

When i was 16, i met my ex fiancee of two years and despite being so young, i wanted to settle down and so did he, by 17 i was trying for our first (which in hindsight, i was just trying to be a gorwn up and stupidly thought having a baby would make me one) i had a positive pregnancy test a few months later and then a month after that, just before my doctors appointment, i lost the baby. It was not pleasant, but i am grateful that it was fairly quick and had no complications. I didnt think about that baby much at all really, my ex and i split soon after and my life was too much of a mess for me to focus on it. But when i had summer, it made me think about what that baby could have been and i think i went through greiving for that baby, nearly 3 years later.

My second loss was just 2 months ago, i had decided i would like the depo injection after my periods started again with elsie, and my doctor told me to come back when i started a period...my period didnt come on time and i did a pregnancy test, which showed negative, then the next day i started spotting, presumed it was my period and went to the doctors that same afternoon for the depo...the next day there was no sign of any bleeding. The next month was fine, then i started to bleed one day and very very heavily with lots of pain. I passed lots of large clots and other horrible looking things, and i knew then that i was losing a baby. My doctors was closed for two days and i didnt want to go to a and e, so i waited till the monday and he told me it was probable that the spotting may have been an implantation bleed but he would not scan unless the bleeding didnt stop. I fel very sad, and at times guilty, for not making sure it was a period before going for the depo, which would be most likely what caused me to miscarry. I also wonder if it may have been the little boy i would so like to have.

I always think now, when i look at my kids that there could have been two more, but, i guess thats the hard part of life, sometimes it isnt always kind xxx
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Mon Jan 15, 2007 9:11 am

Sorry to hear about your loss of 2 pregnancies Hugs
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Mon Jan 15, 2007 9:16 am

Oh hunnie I am so sorry Big hugs xx

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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Tue Jan 16, 2007 1:58 am

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. It must be such a hard thing to experience.
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Fri Jan 19, 2007 6:35 am

oh hunni grouphug

i was told had a miscarrage when ... i started flooding with blood one day and soon after was diagnosed with edometriosis too ...

and i often think about what he/she may have looked like cryin

so i understand where your coming from Giveflowers

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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Fri Jan 19, 2007 7:12 am

Its so sad to hear this. Its such a hard thingto go through. Ive seen my Mum go through 5 miscarriges and she had 1 still born aswell. :( We buried him. Sadens me that we never got to know the little one.
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Fri Jan 19, 2007 8:10 am

Aww I feel like crying cryin
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Tue Feb 06, 2007 12:54 pm

So sorry to hear this
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Wed Feb 07, 2007 6:53 pm

Srry to hear that I never have gone through that but I can imaging how much it can hurt
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:10 pm

I am sorry to hear about your loss (((hugs)))
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Tue Feb 13, 2007 3:15 pm

Oh I am so sorry to hear that I dont know what I would have done if that would havfe happened to me... I would probably have had a nervous breakdown.... I gotta give it to you, you sound like you've got a pretty good grip on things to me.
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PostSubject: so sorry aswell   Thu May 10, 2007 5:09 pm

Hey. I'm sorry for your losses and anyone elses. i know how you may feel. i had a miscarriage last month so its still fresh in my mind and i don't think i've quite got over it yet. I was so silly, i thought that it couldn't' happen to me but the truth is it can happen to anyone, whether they be young or older...I wish it didn't happen as i was actually planning for this baby. Jenny wasn't planned but i have never regretted it as i was in a stable relationship and still am...Wish there was more i could say but i can't, i just know that it hurts a lot emotionally even if the baby you lose isn't developed yet (i was 7 weeks when i lost mine). I just wish everyone the best for your future and i wish you the best if your trying again too. I also wanted to add that i am no longer trying for a baby as i get too depressed some days so i have to go on anti-depresants and i don't want to try while i'm on them as i was taking them before i found out i was pregnant and i think thats the reason why i lost it, even though the doctors said it wouldn't have been.

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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Thu May 10, 2007 7:41 pm

I hope you are hanging in there :-?
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Fri May 11, 2007 4:13 am

Oh Kim i am sorry to hear about yur loss and i hope you are ok and things work out for you...if you need to talk i am here for you....you can pm me if you like....xxxx
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PostSubject: Thanks   Fri May 11, 2007 4:37 am

Thanks for all your support. I really appreciate it. Trying to forget about it all now. Would like to chat soon.

Thanks again...

Kim xx Thanks
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Fri May 11, 2007 8:19 am

Your welcome...
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PostSubject: Re: my two spirit babies   Tue Jun 26, 2007 11:35 am

aww hunni i no how u eel i myself has lost 2 angels last year 1 o mc and the other to ectoic i was devestated and theres not 1 day i dont thik baout my babies just cuz they werent born doent mean u werent there mummy if u ever want to caht feel free to pm me xx im here4 u if u need me xx
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